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Authors: Joanna Węgrzynowska, Agnieszka Milczarek
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When do we deal with the violence? |
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Violence occurs when the attacking person is stronger, physically or mentally. The characteristic is therefore an imbalance of forces.
Bullying is particularly painful for pupils.
Bullying is the case when a pupil is permanently exposed to the aggression (direct or not) of a stronger pupil or a group of schoolmates but he or she is not able to resist it.
Violence occurs in many disguises.
Generally we can speak of three groups of violence:
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- beating
- pushing and struggling
- tripping up
- forcing money
- locking up
- damage to personal belongings
- kicking
- spitting
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- name calling
- ridiculing
- threatening
- mocking
- gossiping
- conspiring
- blackmailing
- invectives
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non-physical and non-verbal violence: |
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- hostile gestures
- pulling faces
- isolating
- manipulating of friends' relationships
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It is useful to remember:
Name calling or isolation can be equally harmful and painful as physical attack for the victim. These forms of violence should not be neglected. Everything depends on the sensibility of a child.
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